Replies, calmly

Online wedding RSVPwithout the chasing

Every guest answers for every event, with their meal, dietary needs and plus-ones, in about a minute. You see the numbers as they arrive, and replies close on the date you choose.

Dear Tan family
Mei Ling
Tea ceremonyAcceptsDeclines
Wedding lunchAcceptsDeclines
MealFish
Jun Wei
Tea ceremonyAcceptsDeclines
Wedding lunchAcceptsDeclines
MealVegetarian
DietaryNo peanuts, please
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What it does

  1. 01

    Per guest, per event

    Grandma can come to the tea ceremony and skip the evening. Each person in a household answers for each event they are invited to.

  2. 02

    Meals and dietary needs

    Your own menu, an optional children’s menu, and a note for allergies and preferences. Access needs are asked on their own, so you can plan properly.

  3. 03

    Plus-ones, on your terms

    Give each household a set number of extra seats, up to ten, or leave it open. Plus-ones give their name and meal too.

  4. 04

    Changes without the messages

    Guests can update their reply until replies close. Close them yourself, or set a date and time, and see every change as it happens.

  5. 05

    A quick answer from home

    Guests can tap yes or no for each event from the home screen, then confirm the details on the reply page.

  6. 06

    Not on the list? An open link

    Post one reply link in a group chat for people without a personal link, with a cap on replies, and approve each one if you like.

For the two of you

The numbers, counted

Totals by event, by side and by age group. Meal counts for the kitchen, a list of dietary and access needs, children and parking requests. Filter who has replied, who hasn't, and who has not opened their invitation yet.

When your venue asks for final numbers, export the whole guest list as a spreadsheet: every guest, every event, every meal. Not sure when to ask? Read when to set your RSVP deadline.

Replies so far
EventComingCan'tAwaiting
Tea ceremony3846
Solemnisation112921
Wedding lunch1861432
94Chicken
61Fish
31Vegetarian
7 dietary notes · 3 access needs · 12 children

How it works

  1. 1

    Add your households

    Type them in or paste your spreadsheet, and choose who is invited to each event.

  2. 2

    Send their links

    Each household gets its own link, ready to share on WhatsApp with a message you can edit.

  3. 3

    Watch the replies arrive

    Totals update as guests answer. Close replies on your date and send your caterer the numbers.

Further reading

Questions

Can one guest reply for the whole family?

Yes. Replies are by household, so one person can answer for everyone in it, event by event.

Can guests change their RSVP?

Yes, until replies close. You can close them yourself at any time or set a date and time for them to close automatically.

How do we handle plus-ones?

Choose how many extra seats each household has, from none to ten, or leave it open. Each plus-one adds their name, meal and any dietary needs.

What about guests who aren’t on our list?

Turn on the open reply link and share it where you like. Each reply creates its own household, and you can approve replies before they count.

Can we export the replies for our venue?

Yes. Download a spreadsheet with every guest, their answer for each event, meal, dietary and access needs.

No more counting by hand

Start collecting replies

Free to create and free to share with everyone you invite. Your names, the date and a look, and you can send the first link today.